Bad Feeling about Your Sister’s New Boyfriend? Search His Criminal Record
We’ve all heard that love is blind, and it causes us to make stupid decisions we may regret one day. In our infatuation, we stop looking at all that person’s flaws and we only look for the good inside of them.
Your sister just got a new boyfriend and he looks like trouble. He looks disheveled most of the time, his eyes are reddish, and he doesn’t speak very coherently. Your sister might think he’s just, “laid back”, you think he’s always stoned. Maybe this is a man who reeks of alcohol all the time. In your case, it might be someone who never has work because people don’t “get him”. Whatever your reason, he always has an excuse. The truth can be much darker. You may want to consider searching through criminal records and see if he has a record of domestic abuse. Men who have been convicted at least once are known to be repeat offenders when it comes to this kind of behavior. What’s worse is that women who are being abused are often manipulated by their abusers to feel like they “deserve” the treatment and do not usually report when they are being abused. If you see signs of disturbing behavior, like if he has a tendency to raise his voice, drink alcohol excessively, or being overly defensive when confronted with his actions, you should do a public record search to see if he has any convictions and report him to the police for his unruly actions.
Protect your sister and take action before it’s too late! It might be difficult to convince her to leave a complicated relationship, but if you gather evidence and make a report to the police, you can save her from a bad ending!